Life has a funny way of throwing things at us that we were never expecting. For me, living with severe and enduring mental health challenges and physical disabilities has meant facing barriers that were never really designed for us. At times it felt impossible to get past them. There were moments when it felt like parts of society had written me off, as though my potential was limited by my circumstances. But what I’ve learned through it all is that being underestimated can sometimes be the biggest motivation of all.
Getting an OBE was something I never imagined would happen. It’s one of those moments that makes you stop and reflect on your journey, the pain, the resilience, and the people who’ve stood by you through it all. This award isn’t just about me, it’s about every single person with lived experience who works hard every day to make a difference. It’s a recognition that our stories, our voices, and our experiences truly matter.
My journey has never been easy. There have been days when it’s been emotionally, psychologically, and physically exhausting. But I never gave up. Instead, I poured my energy into supporting others who face similar struggles, helping to amplify lived experience voices, and working to make sure we are seen and heard.
So while this award was totally unexpected, it’s deeply meaningful. It reminds me, and hopefully others too, that no matter how tough life gets, we can still make a difference. We can still contribute. We can still overcome.
I want to say a massive thank you to everyone who’s supported me on this journey. And especially to all those with multiple disadvantages and lived experiences of injustice — this recognition is for you too. You inspire me every single day.
The greatest triumphs often grow from the deepest struggles, and every step forward is proof that hope is stronger than hardship.
